Posted by
Ray White on
March 28, 2010
Being your own boss has its perks. Your time is yours to do with what you will. No punching a time clock. No answering to any supervisor. You can come and go as you please. It’s life on Easy Street. Gotta love it.
Except when your husband asks when is dinner is going to be ready. Your wife wants to know when you are going to fix the dishwasher. Your kids or grandkids miss you at their Tae Kwon Do tournaments and piano recitals. Friends and relatives can’t get you on the phone unless they use Skype. The dog sits at your feet with his leash in his mouth. Your cat won’t leave your lap; she doesn’t have to since you never get up from the computer. On those rare occasions when you do get up (to go to the bathroom), you notice how much your back hurts, how stiff your neck is, and that your butt is numb from sitting for hours on end. Then you suddenly remember that email that you were supposed to answer and you go running back to the computer.
Oh the joys of self employment!
We all want to do whatever we want whenever we want. What we forget as entrepreneurs is that we get to define what “whenever” is. And we have to define “whenever” clearly so that our lives don’t become chaos.
When you work outside the home, you know you have to get certain things done before quitting time. When it’s time to go home, you go. It’s easy to leave the job at work. When you work from home, you lose the physical barrier between work life and personal life. And for some strange reason, work life swallows personal life.
Maybe it’s because we are the breadwinner of the household and need to pay the bills. Maybe it’s our competitive nature. Maybe it’s just the geek in us that keeps drawing us back to the computer. Whatever the reason, our personal life goes to hell in a handbasket, yet we told ourselves that we wanted to work at home in order to have a better personal life. Crazy, huh?
Here are a few suggestions for putting some order to the chaos.
Decide when your business hours are, then let everyone know
You said you wanted to work your own hours, so define them. Make a business hours sign and put it up on your white board. Post them on your website. Let your family and friends know when you are “on the job.” Just because you are at home does not mean that you are available all day to shoot the crap and run errands. They are more likely to believe you when you say “later” if they know you have a designated quitting time. By the way, you can have a day or two off for good behavior as well.
Schedule breaks during business hours
Remember back in high school when you had 10 minutes between classes? There was a reason for that. Well, back then it was for the teachers’ sanity, but now it can be for your own. Seriously, you should at least look up from the computer every so often for your eye health, so why not make it once an hour? Get a kitchen timer and set it for 50 minutes. When it goes off, it’s time to step away from the computer for 10 minutes. Get up and stretch, get a drink, go to the bathroom, check the snail mailbox, call your mom, feed the pets.
Put personal time in your schedule
Quit “penciling in” the fun stuff, or the necessary stuff. Personal time should include family time, “date night”, meal times (the J.O.B. did give you a lunch break, remember?). If you shuttle the kids to school and soccer practice, put that in your schedule, too. And the grocery shopping. Don’t forget time to exercise. Or your favorite soap opera. Does your significant other like to talk when they get home? Make your life easier and block out a half hour for that, too.
Define your home office space
It will help you compartmentalize between work time and personal time. Designate the space around your computer as “work space.” If you are lucky enough to have a spare room to devote to office space, keep the door closed. Not just when you are in there, when you aren’t there as well. Keep a barrier between work and home. If you have just the corner of a room, make sure to keep only business related stuff there.
Work is important, but don’t let it take over your entire life. Don’t wait for someday. Enjoy the finer things in life now.